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There is no ‘Prince Charming’ and nobody is coming…

September 5, 2020 by nige

That is it. Whatever you are waiting for. Whatever you are wanting to happen Whatever you are hoping is going to materialise. Whatever you are wishing will turn up. It is not. Nobody is coming. There is no Prince Charming in your story. No one is available. No lifeboats are being sent. You are on … Read more

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